Frustrated!

I'm sooo frustrated right now. If we make it though this home search with a house it will be a miracle. So we had a builder all lined up and we just about to get everything started I mean we had our lot all picked out all we had to do was write the check to reserve it and that fell through. And then we found a different builder and now we might have to back out and get out reservation money back! It's sooo irritating! So now we might go get a Realtor and buy an older house instead which is fine it's just so irritating I wish things would just get figured out already so we can move on either to a house or upgrade some of our things like new bedroom furniture. GRRR well thanks for reading my rant=)! Hope you all have a great week!